Get closure after the abrupt ending of a relationship with this post-breakup goodbye letter.
Just because you were the one to end our relationship doesn't mean that you get to have the last word about its effects and consequences. I am writing this out to you instead of speaking to you directly because I think it is the best way to say what I want to say without getting angry or overly emotional.
I'm hurt that you broke up with me the way you did. It was abrupt, confusing and painful. I'm not saying that you didn't have good reasons. There were a lot of things that needed to be worked on in our relationship, such as {problem 1} and {problem 2}. But if you had brought up the feelings that you were having earlier, we might have worked through them. At the very least, I would have had some idea that you were having doubts. As it was, I feel like you dumped me out of nowhere, and that makes me feel even worse.
You said that you wanted to stay friends with me. I hope that someday that becomes possible, but for now it's just too painful. While I want nothing but happiness for you, keep in mind that you've broken my heart. It's going to take some time to heal.
I've said what I needed to and I hope that you keep it in mind in your future relationships.
